Getting out

Been thinking quite abit lately about relationships and more specifically getting out of relationships. Time and time again we have seen people who are less than satisfied with their relationships and yet they go on. And on and on and on.

I believe that if one wants to get out of a relationship, especially a long one, there has to be a point. A point where they say "OK this is it. I am out of here." Until that point is reached, getting out is never going to happen.

And then there is the after you are out stage. Where you start to be lost. All the "I have no one", "Did I make the right decision", "The relationship wasn't that bad" thoughts start flooding in.

I think the best thing to have at this point in time is the support system. Caring friends and family that are going to surround you and keep you company until your heart mends. People that are going to help you to grow and heal. Not those that go "forget the bitch" and encourage you to turn into a slut.

And as the heart mends, there is the letting go. The hardest part of all. Where you forgive and can look the person in the eye without any feelings and peace in your heart.

For those that are thinking about leaving: The longer you wait, the harder it gets.